As a young female that commutes to school on foot and public transportation, I am no stranger to unwanted harassments. The first few times or so, I felt defiled and stripped of my dignity. I lost count how of many times my ass had been grazed over by a roving hand, boobs 'accidentally' elbowed by lecherous fuckers and the best of all getting my boobs stared at like I'm some kind of object.
Before you tell me this is an overrated and exhausted topic, let me tell YOU that I'll bring it up as many times as I can as long as it happens to me and other women out there.
Just drink that in for a moment, bringing this up every time it happens. I am a statistic, think about it.
But it is even more surprising that some women do not know that certain things shouldn't happen to them, certain behaviour that they should not condone.
Chiefly:
1. Whistling
I have, and probably wouldn't escape escape this no matter how many times I feel like flipping my middle finger and curse these bastards out. Why do they do that? Why do they whistle to beckon us and expect us to respond to that? Are we dogs? I dont think we even beckon a dog that way! So ladies, when someone whistles to beckon you, why the fuck do you turn? Where is your self respect? Aunty Acid says it all:
Well, that's that. On to point number -
2. The guy old enough to be your father stares at your bosom(or men of any age) -
Stare him back. With ice-cold glares that would shrink his balls. Look at him straight in the eye, without blinking. Replace your shyness with white hot fury, make him cringe. Make him know that you will not be afraid to make a scene if he continues. I have done this many times myself and it works. Straighten your back, tighten your jaw and give the the death glare.
3. Flip at him when necessary.
Some men think no means yes.(Whoever came up with that need to be thrown in a pool of starving sharks). At this rate, you can give the misinformed beholder a black eye. Do not be afraid to punch him, slap him, scratch him, bite him, kick him and anything at all to defend yourself. In an article called Through the Eyes of a Rapist , Orey have written that "8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time-consuming and, also, increases their likelihood of being caught". See, asshole men want an easy victim. Don't be that victim. In fact, I think more women should start punching them jackasses even at the slightest form of sexual harassment so it can be spread to other men that we ladies ain't even gonna put up with that kind of shit.
4. They should make it legal for women to carry weapon.
Think about it, hiding a pocket gun, knife, taser, pepper spray in between your bra, things or even the waist area is useful. When a man attacks a woman, the fact that he violates every aspect of basic principles of human decency warrants him an injury that he deserves. Like seriously, who does he think he is, touching a woman simply because he a thing for her? I think if a man touches a woman inappropriately, he deserves a broken limb. And yes, these weapons will result in casualties, and lets hope the casualty is the perpetrator. Men with sick mentality like that don't deserve to live. Let's just obliterate society trash once and for all. The world is overpopulated anyway, we could use some assholes dying.
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